Savor summer with boredom and imperfection

2 Surprising Reports That Help You Savor the Last of Summer


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Summer camps end this week. As the summer days begin to wane, there’s a unique opportunity to savor the season's final moments. This time of year often brings a mix of emotions—eagerness for the structured days ahead, but also a yearning to hold onto the leisurely pace of summer. Two recent reports offer refreshing insights that can help us make the most of these remaining days: it’s okay to let kids get bored, and there are significant downsides to perfectionism.

The Gift of Boredom

A surprising report (by the NY Times) suggests that allowing kids to experience boredom can be beneficial. In a world where children are often scheduled to the minute with activities and entertainment, boredom can actually spark creativity and self-discovery. It encourages them to use their imagination, engage in unstructured play, and find joy in simple pleasures. As summer winds down, we can embrace this philosophy by giving our children the freedom to explore their surroundings and interests without a rigid agenda. This unstructured time can lead to unexpected adventures and cherished memories.

The Pitfalls of Perfectionism

Another insightful report highlights the downsides of perfectionism. The relentless pursuit of perfection can lead to stress, anxiety, and a diminished sense of accomplishment. As summer ends, it’s a perfect time to reflect on the importance of embracing imperfections. Let go of the pressure to make every moment picture-perfect. Instead, focus on the joy of the present—whether it’s a slightly burnt marshmallow at a campfire, a messy but fun art project, or a spontaneous day at the beach. By releasing the need for perfection, we open ourselves to more genuine and fulfilling experiences.

Embracing the Season’s End

As we savor the last of summer, let’s take these lessons to heart. Allowing kids to be bored can unlock their creativity, while letting go of perfectionism can bring more peace and enjoyment to our lives. Plan a few more relaxed family outings, including yoga, and leave some days unscheduled, and relish the simple pleasures that summer offers. Whether it’s a lazy afternoon in the park, a picnic with friends, or a quiet evening watching the sunset, these moments can become the highlights of the season.